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10 Reasons Not to Stick to One Group ONLY

There are some people who like to stick to one gang of people. They go study together, eat together, watch movie together, play together, etc. They don't join other people for activities, rather than themselves. They tend to stay in their comfort zone in every opportunity.

Why I write these? I scare they do something foolish when they are depressed.



These are why we don't stick to one group of people only:

1. This is good for your health and mentality. You begin to take part in activities when your social circulation grows big. In contrast, when you stay in your comfort zone, you grow slow, compare to other people, in term of your mentality. Your thinking would be child-like mind.

2. It helps in your learning journey when you mix with the different people. Eventually, you learn a lot, including how to enjoy life, what on earth is about. This application same to reading books. We read not only one book, we go for two and more, then, our knowledge expends.

3. You can expect the unexpected, you can expect more, because you see more! Your life is fun, your life is colorful.

4. You will get to experience different kind of culture. In fact, culture does not only differ in countries, but also differ in groups among society. Each group has their own practice. For example, one group of people tend to be late in every meeting they have, and punishment for it, is no necessary. I have came to a group of people, who express themselves with foul word, and they like it very much. It's their life, it's their culture.

5. Helps come when you are in trouble. Indeed, this does not guaranty 100% that your aids will come immediately. At least, you can try to sort things out easily, with the advices from your friends. Your sources will not be limited.

6. You learn to be flexible. You can react to any changes of your life quickly, including death, sickness, environment, and etc.

7. You get to know yourself better, you'll know what are you good at. You will be different, you will be more creative in the way you think, because you have learned from different kind of people.

8. You can develop new interests slowly, in unconsciousness. For example, i have learned how to shop like girls, until leg's muscle cramp, but one thing- i don't buy. I have also learned to watch anime once, influenced by some people, but I'm not a crazy fan and get addicted to it.

9. You see differently. You are able to see one thing from many angle, as you have heard so many of opinion. You can look at the bright side on every situation, you will become more optimistic and happy.

10. Life is short, spend it meaningfully. Touch people lives when you are able to do so.




4 comments:

Anonymous said...

wa ! a meaningfull post .... but like i m in english lesson ...hehehe a good muet question... hahahaXD

yongkim said...

haha.. yesh, my english is bad, nid improvement.

Anonymous said...

not as trrible as mine ...hahaha ... meaningful oso spell wrongly ....hahaha keep in touch XD

Anonymous said...

对不起。。我想写下一些看法。。我不是批评,而是想说些我个人认为的看法。我个人认为认识多人是应该的。因为会带很多好处个我们。但我个人认为,长期与自己的好朋友《密友》在一起也不会说不好。

像你所说的“ when you stay in your comfort zone, you grow slow, compare to other people, in term of your mentality. Your thinking would be child-like mind.”我不大认同。为什么??
我想问?我们长期跟自己那伙的朋友在一起,
是为什么?换句话是我,我会觉得,我长期跟自己那伙的朋友一起,是因为,他们让我觉得舒适,舒服,没有压力。那瞬间,会是最开心,最没有感到躯警的感觉。反而,会很享受那个过程。试问,在一个那么好的情况下,何来的,身理及心理成长缓慢???

我也不认为会“孩子气”。为什么?其实,某个人的“孩子气”是由很多因素。无论,我们认识怎样的人,我们多多少少都会被朋友影响。所以,我不认为,长期于同样的一伙朋友在一起会变得孩子气。或许,我们的那伙朋友是思想成熟的呢!


“Helps come when you are in trouble” 我觉得这一点不大对。为什么?因为,现代人,虽然你认识蛮多的朋友,并不代表他们肯定雪中送炭。反而,我觉得你长期的密友就会八仙率比较高。为什么?虽然认识朋友多,但是认识多了,时间跟朋友在一起就分薄了。那么友谊会深到如何?然而,如果长期于一伙朋友在一起,相信你们的友谊比平常朋友的深度肯定不同。换句话说,是普通朋友还是密友会在你需要帮助的时候帮助你一臂之力呢??

“You see differently”“ You are able to see one thing from many angle, as you have heard so many of opinion” 我想问,多意见是好事吗?多意见可以让我们知道很多看法与思想。但是多意见,多看法 不会让你很难作决定吗?不会混乱吗?不会让你犹豫不决吗?请想一想!!

这全都是我个人认为,如果有不对之处,请大家多多原谅!!!!

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